Every woman wants to be the center of attention on her wedding day. She wants to look elegant, fabulous and most of all, heart-stopping to her groom. Being a plus size woman, I know from experience, that finding clothing can be a frustrating, disturbing and sometimes a very upsetting experience. However, when it comes time to shop for “THE dress,” it can be very challenging. Don’t fret - here are four tips for you to look like the fabulous queen you are, on your wedding day:
1. Every woman needs to know her shape - We as women, all have different shapes. So we should search for a gown that will accentuate our assets versus finding something unflattering. For the curvier woman, an A-Line wedding gown will look flattering and gorgeous for your figure. For the top heavy woman, a V-neck or Scoop neck would look fabulous – just make sure the fit is just right and isn’t cut too low. Please try to avoid the poufy ball gown, as this will make you look fuller and more round.
2. Know where to shop - Do your research on plus size wedding gowns in your area and find shops that offer them. Not only will you be able to fall in love with a gown that you can actually have, but you can also try them on, which is very important! If you’re in the tri state area, Park Avenue Bridals in Verona, NJ is an excellent bridal shop, catering to all Brides including, plus size women (trust me I know… that’s where I got my wedding gown from). David’s Bridal is also a definite option!
3. Comfort is a must - Every bride needs comfort on her wedding day! You don’t want to feel stiff, suffocated, or stressed out on your wedding day. You want to feel like you can have a great time and not have to tug or constantly fix your wedding gown all night. Your gown should be comfortable and a pleasure to be in; you should enjoy every minute of having it on. If you happen to fall in between sizes after being measured, always choose the larger size. You can always make your gown smaller by taking away fabric, but you can’t necessarily make it larger by adding fabric.
4. Alterations are key - No matter what size you are, it is a MUST that you look your best on your wedding day. You’re paying a lot of money for that beautiful gown, so making sure it fits as if it was only made for you, is important. Be sure to have your alterations professionally done. Most Bridal Shops offer alteration services, but if they do not, they usually have suggestions for Seamstresses they recommend. You do not want to put your gown in the hands of an amateur and of course, every little detail matters, especially when it comes to your gown.
This is the most important day of your life. You want to look and feel your best in the gown that is just for you! You do know you deserve that, right? No matter what size you are, have fun and enjoy your day! Remember to be the fabulous and gorgeous queen that you are!
Happy Planning!!!! xoxo
Tomyka ;-)
